The mother teachs yesterday of outstanding parent of expert and whole nation to talk about experience in peace

Why be successful family to teach? How should be outstanding mother done in filial education? Yesterday, ministry of workingwoman of city federation of trade unions organized a large lecture, the problem is " you want to do outstanding mother " . Wu Zhanghong of outstanding parent of Wang Donghua of director of institute of Chinese mother education and whole nation rings alarm bell noisy to all mothers: Want the child is successful, oneself must outstanding.

Those who teach the child is essential depend on him education

Wang Donghua points out straight from the shoulder: Chinese front faces severe family education crisis, current, the educational concept with the family education mode of traditional elite and advanced west was not absorbed, the most of follow returns parents is the educational means of on one generation. A lot of parents ask the child should be like how about blindly why, oneself were not done however. For instance, a mother tells him plaguily, she son of 6 years old learned to lie recently. Classics understanding, once, this mother is taking the child to drive receive a friend, the friend asks where she went to, she did not speak true place. Result child is wherefrom second learned to lie.

Wang Donghua thinks, the basic course that the family teachs depends on educating him parent, parents is the biggest maker of child problem, ground of exert a subtle influence on of every word and deed affects the child.

Successful education is study, be an upright person to all be caught

To a lot of parents ask the child learns the way with excellent achievement blindly now, wang Donghua blame often objects, he thinks, noting redo person to teach can be education hellion and convict only. The incident of the suicide of the outstanding student such as increasing Tsinghua, Beijing University and filial abandon, killing old person can show an issue very much. Successful family education should make child body and mind healthy develop. Child of requirement of a lot of parents learns abstruse number, English to wait as a child should try course, do not read literary famous book however, read great person memoir, just be education so bookish, and the spirit that lacks line of business of success important matter.

Make the child personal experience any difficulty of the family

The Wu Zhanghong that is judged to be countrywide outstanding parent is come off sentry duty leaves different woman worker, but she fosters the son into the piano new show that wins 15 international large award however, she says: "My greatest experience is to look after children go facing real life, the words and deeds that uses oneself goes child of infection, education. "Wu Hong chapter raises a son, all previous classics innumerable trials and hardships, she says the child can not firm and Wei difficulty, hopeful, active enterprising, be attributed to oneself to let the child experience domestic affliction personally all the time, let the child be healed from the feeling on him body defeat heals brave is firm up character. She often is taking the child to go oneself working place, sorching burning sun, she is taking the child to go together street buys do manual work must yuan of parts of an apparatus, let the child see the mother works everyday a few 10 hours, hold to however everyday 5 yuan life. Parent come off sentry duty, parents is difficult from the family such as different, above all him parent should be faced correctly, teach the child with this. Next, ten million cannot let child nurturance blame the psychology with reap where one has not sown. (origin: Sohu)
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