Chen Heqin puts forward, parents should widely, make great society of children and nature often conterminous touch, from inside specific and vivid external environment, gain substantial perceptual knowledge, increase the capacity of feeling consciousness, the functional activity of stimulative cerebra. When he still emphasizes be being contacted when children and outside ambient again and again, what should support children is good one's mind disturbed, curiosity become reconciled asks a heart. Because " of children good asking is drive by curious dynamical place " , the query that parents ought to give children with right answer. It is good that the parent should master children the psychological characteristic that move, care and the curiosity that support children, in order to promote the development of children intelligence. Mr Chen Heqin the thought moral character to children, the education that behavior is used to also takes seriously very much. He thinks children answer as a child " nurturance citizen's due character " , rear the child a variety of good conventions " it is the base that builds perfect character " , accordingly, want to accomplish:
1, parents should give the child " make an appearance " -- set oneself an example to others.
Children is to abound those who imitate a gender, parents and children every day a very short time gets along, they are accepting children all the time " supervise " , its words and deeds behaves hard completely evasive children. Accordingly, do father and mother, should prohibit children is not done in that way thing, always want oneself to be not done; Should teach children to do in that way thing, always want oneself to be done first. That that is to say, parents wants everywhere, constantly, set oneself an example to others of at every turn " all wants him to make appearance first " this is domestic education " fundamental law " , very important, decide the family teachs working success or failure. Alleged " be used to Yu Shanze be apt to, be used to at evil evil. Be used to at evil evil..
2, pay attention to first time.
What common saying says is good, all things start is bad, do well for the first time, the 2nd, the 3rd... do easily well; First time err, later easy err. Because they learn at the beginning,a variety of bad habits of a lot of child nurturance are when, teacher or parents did not go what just bring about in time correcting them, as a result later one fault is again wrong, after be brought up more difficult change.
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